The Difference Between Sex, Orgasm, and Anal Sex
Human sexual behavior, human sex or sexual behavior is the way in which people experience and express themselves sexually. People engage in various sexual acts, ranging from sexually aggressive acts done by strangers to more subtle actions with another individual, for various reasons. Some of these acts are premeditated while others are not. In either case, sex is a powerful means of communicating intimacy and desire between two individuals. Sex also serves as a major social lubricant and stress buster, allowing people to move toward each other and make sexual contact when they need to do so without being too vulnerable to the stress of public shame or ridicule.
Sex is a multi-faceted act that involves not only physical but also emotional, mental and spiritual elements. Sex has been described in many ways by different people, for example, as a kind of dance, a kind of prostrating exercise, a way of giving vent to pent up emotions, an outlet for anger and a means of giving pleasure to the senses. Sex involves the use of the entire body to move sexually, including the genitals, anus, vagina and clitoris. There are numerous other components that come into play during sexual intercourse.
In some cases, people who do not wish to label their bodies may identify as neither male nor female but may identify as intersex, i.e. intersexed. This may be because their external sex characteristics do not fit the stereotypical male or female gender assignment. It may be because their internal sex characteristics do not fit neatly into a male or female category. In cases where people do not wish to have any biological markers put on their bodies, they may identify as neither male nor female but may still have some feelings of gender identity despite their external sex. Some intersexed individuals may choose to live a lie and dress as a cisgendered person so that they can be able to have a certain degree of social acceptance, even if they feel they do not belong to the category of “men” or “women”.
In some instances two people of the same gender engage in sexual contact and neither participant is aware that he or she is transgendered. In this instance it is called transgendered Outercourse. This refers to any sexual act between two people of the same sex where one is aware that he or she is transgendered and the other is not. For instance, a person who feels like a woman because he has feminine hormones and a penis that points toward a female body types may engage in oral sex with another person who has a penis that points toward a male body types but is unaware that he is transgendered.
Oral sex, which is emission of semen into another person’s mouth, is an act that many women do not enjoy. However, there are many women who are capable of achieving multiple orgasms without ejaculating even after vigorous or lengthy sexual intercourse with a man. Oral sex is often accompanied by vaginal intercourse to increase the chances of orgasm by strengthening and stimulating the vagina and urethra.
To better understand the differences between sex, and orgasms it would be best to ask a qualified sex therapist for help. A therapist will better understand your desires, needs, and fantasies as well as how you react to various sexual situations and how to best use your skills to achieve the greatest orgasm you possibly can. You may wish to ask a therapist about the nuances between oral sex and intercourse as well as the difference between foreplay and penetration. The therapist can also enlighten you about the many ways you can better pleasure yourself during sex to enhance the experience both for yourself and your partner.